Many young women confuse the relationships they have with their fathers and lovers, while young boys often grow up with a skewered view of what a truly strong male influence looks like. A feeling of separation from fathers often comes along with a feeling of separation from source energy as many people are taught to view God as a male figure in the sky, with a cane, just waiting for people to sin and be stricken to hell. Young girls are often raised to be “daddy’s girls” with unrealistic expectations to live “happily ever after” with Prince Charming, who like her father gives her everything she wants. On the other side of the equation many young men are taught to rule their castle with an “iron fist” to keep their family in line. These attitudes are passed down the paternal line from our great, great grandfathers and beyond. Fathers are often triggered by their own traumas when their children reach specific ages and grades that bring up negative memories. Place this card with a photo of yourself and your children to strengthen purposeful, loving communication between you.